Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Lawson's Deli

I went to Lawson's Deli today for lunch and ran into one of the hottest girls I've ever seen in person. I was leaving and she was walking to get napkins when we passed each other and made eye contact. She smiled, and I tucked tail and went into shy pussy mode. I'm so disappointed in myself.

The girl was about 25, long blond hair, very pretty face, and was wearing a t-shirt, black leggings, and slippers. She probably just came from the gym, and she still looked stunning.

There's a saying that goes something like this: "If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten." I think Tony Robbins said it. I interpret it that you must take risks to better yourself. In regards to my dating life, perhaps I'm underwhelmed by the girls in DC because I am content to pluck the low hanging fruit. I don't take any risks.

It frustrates me that I can be so bold in some instances and such an impotent twerp others. I should have walked right up to her, introduced myself, and asked her for her number. Why is the fear of rejection so powerful?

7 comments:

  1. Because who wants to feel like shit when someone laughs at you and basically denies you...which, in turn, is a statement that they dont think you are good enough! YA. so even the possiblity of such an event is enough to keep on truckin...

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  2. Sometimes it's so frustrating as woman - giving the right signals to a guy and him not having the cajones to approach. (People would probably say I should approach instead, but I guess I'm too old fashioned for that. I'd lose a bit of respect for the guy if I had to do the chasing, honestly.)

    Lesson learned.....hopefully?

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  3. How are you posting at 10:34 a.m. about where you had lunch today?

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  4. The time on the blog is not correct...it's never been.

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  6. I respect your honesty. Not every woman will reject you. And if they do, that doesn't diminish your self value.

    I hope the next time you see a stunner, you'll approach.

    Tiffanie

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