Let's Recap

Barring a truly ridiculous story, which is unlikely since I'm driving home tomorrow to stay with my mom for a week, this is going to be my last post of the year, number 199 of the blog. I may have lost focus a couple of times, so let's take a moment to regroup and recap.

Regroup:
I would like to reiterate my goal. Simply stated it is to chronicle my adventures dating in DC. I am doing this for me. This is sort of a diary of my bachelorhood. There are so many crazy things that happen to me I want to remember them all exactly how they went down since time tends to "embellish" stories. Therefore, I am being as open and honest as I can. I tell almost everything that I experience, unedited.

I do get some feedback and commentary from readers, either in the form of online comments or through email (crazygirlsblog@gmail.com). I appreciate them all, and generally try to respond to the positive and ignore the negative. I leave all online commentary posted except where people are blatantly spamming products or promoting other sites. I never remove or screen negative feedback.

I think it's important to remind you that not a single one of my friends knows about this blog. There are many reasons I keep this anonymous, but the biggest one is that it allows me to be 100% honest. I don't have to worry about offending friends, hurting feelings, covering my ass, or pulling any punches. I can share my true thoughts, which I believe are similar to the thoughts of many guys in my demographic.

Recap:
2009 has been interesting. I rang in the New Year riding the coat-tails of my buddies doing their best impersonations of rock stars in South America. It was truly the high-point of my year, and likely my life. What goes up must come down, though, and in the following months I found myself in a serious female drought. This was compounded by a flu I picked up, which I am certain was the first case of H1N1 in the US.

The drought ended with drunken sex in a Chinese hotel fire escape at 4am. I suppose that's as good a way as any to break out of a slump. However, once back in DC I continued to find myself in precarious situations with women, mainly do to a short stint dating online.

In reviewing my entries for the year I am not surprised to see that Kay was the focus of the vast majority of my entries. Even today, she continues to weight heavily on my mind. I simply can't seem to shake the empty feeling and borderline anger that hearing her name evokes. It's the one thing I my life I am unable to control and it drives me bananas. My only solace is that I know that I played my cards to the best of my ability and left nothing on the table.

After succeeding in fucking things up with Kay I regressed, and basically ended 2009 the way I ended 2008: having sex with Bear and a couple other girls that I either had no feelings for or downright loathed. I learned that: Asian pubes are strait, it's hard to meet girls in the gym, girls like hot tubs, Halloween is still the best night of the year, my readers don't condone sex with deaf girls but are by and large OK with facials, and that I still think girls in DC are crazy.