Mr. Nowhere

I had an interesting evening with Bear last week. We went to dinner and she steered the conversation to my past relationships. I tried to evade the topic, but she was relentless. I would change the subject and she would circle back, this must have happened five times. The outcome of her barrage of questions was: A) My longest relationship was just over one-year and B) I don't like or want kids. She then explained that when she talks to her friends she refers to me as "Mr. Nowhere", because that's where this relationship is headed.


She didn't like my response, which was "Yup, that pretty much sums things up". I didn't say this to be mean, I was just being honest and I don't see this relationship going any further than where it is now. We have fun together, and as I said earlier, the sex is good, so unless she is looking for something more why does the relationship have to change?

I could go on a long diatribe here about how women are obsessed with always moving the relationship to the next step (dating>engagement>marriage>house>baby>baby...) simply for the sake of supposed evolution, but I will spare you the gory details. If Bear is looking for a husband in me than I think my nickname is correct.

My guess is that Bear will not be in the picture much past the holidays.