Dee and Bear

I called Dee on Tuesday night but got her VM. I left a message saying I was going to be out for the rest of the night, but that I would talk to her Wednesday night. The truth is that Bear was coming over Tuesday night and I couldn't talk.

Oh man, Bear, this girl is cookoo for cocao puffs. Bear comes up with all these strange ideas for dates. For one of our first dates Bear showed up at my house with all the ingredients to bake an apple pie, including the crust, from scratch. One night she had a bunch of people to her house to carve pumpkins and read Poe. On Tuesday we watched Gone With The Wind. I love watching movies, but she hates it, so it figures that the one movie she wants to watch together is Gone With The Wind. It actually was not bad, but it certainly wouldn't have been my first choice.

After the movie we ended up in bed, and as usual, the sex was fantastic. There is a slightly frightening side to Bear, though. She likes really rough sex, bordering on violent. Biting, spanking, handcuffs, hair pulling, pinching, choking, and all orifices, they are all in play with Bear. This is really surprising given her very conservative and proper demeanor. But holy shit, sometimes when it's over you need a first aid kit. I'm OK with everything but the choking, once you start that the tendency is to push it further and further, and before you know it you have another corpse to hide (kidding).

I talked to Dee last night. She thanked me for the flowers, "they were very unexpected". She said that she was in her office when someone knocked on the door a couple of times, which she ignored because she thought it was a sales person. Then her phone rang, and the delivery woman said she had flowers to deliver, Dee said "you must have the wrong address". Finally, the delivery person was allowed in to leave the flowers.

The conversation was pretty light, we didn't discuss Saturday night or anything else pertaining to "us". After about a half hour we said good night.

I am not sure exactly what to do now. I think I am going to ignore Dee for a little while and see what her reaction is. I have made it abundantly clear that I am interested, I want to wait for her to make the next move.